Today I would like to touch on "stress". You know, the moments where you feel the world is right on top of you and crushing you in any minute.
To me, a little bit of stress is actually the driving force to make me get my ass up. I think I tend to slack a lot especially when you look at your calendar and you have months left to hand in the work. I'm not saying I love to work under pressure but I think sometimes we take things for granted and I for one am definitely taking things for a ride.
There's a friend of mine who complains everyday that she's very stressed out. She's not talking about stressing on her homework or research, nothing of that concern. She's stressing of her life here in the UK. From my observation, I think it's because she's been pampered too much at home that now she's feeling lost when she has no one here to take care of her. It's becoming so serious that she losses her sleeps. I feel sorry for her but I cannot help her if she doesn't wish to help herself. I cannot blame her for missing home but she should be more responsible for her own action. Her parents didn't force her to come here nor anybody else. So she must live up to her own words and apparently, she's not able to handle it. Maybe it's time for her to get busy and to forget about being daddy's little girl? Honestly, I don't have time to breathe because of the workload and I think she can get herself occupied and forget about home for a little while. I wish her well.
I'm a little bit affected by her because of her constant whining of being bored and missing her family. Sigh...
It's time for everyone to move their asses and get things done. It's definitely better than sitting on the chair and thinking of how bad the world is treating you.
GOOD LUCK ;) Christmas is coming, a time to plan the activities for you to spend with your family. Just a thought. Don't worry be happy.
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Stress
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3 comments:
true..... whinning to each other definately doesnt help esp when everybody is overwhelmed with crazy work load.
if she keep on doing that, u can just change subject to something fun and laugh it off!! it will be good for you and her as well... =)
=)I think she's just homesick...she should get herself busy...like today, i asked her if she wanted to come out instead of staying in her flat, she said it's raining, it's windy, it's everything! All the excuses...well I don't understand =( I'm going to keep trying to help her though...hope she's ok ;)
Ya it's been raining quite a lot but that doesn't stop me from going out =P haha...I hate the freaking wind tho! It's so damn strong, can almost blow me away...=S
What about you? How's your job and life treating you?Update ya =)
job is good, in fact im trying to get a fulltime job there once im done with my last semester.
I love everybody , everybody loves me, hehehe perasan betul. Most ppls are nice there, MOST PPLS...there are THOSE minority everywhere.
Its been windy , i think the wind was blowing 60 to 70 km/h, big storm, ferries were canceled, we just stayed indoor the whole day...but the feeling is nice when the wind is blowing so strong outside and u know ur safe inside ur home. u knw wat i mean? the feeling of security.
anyway,take it easy....ull be blasting urself n having good times once ur done!
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